I had a lot of trouble finding these two programs while remote desktoping into a Windows Server Machine, but here they are:
Open IIS:
IIS Location : %SystemRoot%\system32\inetsrv\InetMgr.exe
or
START > RUN > inetmgr
or
Open Server Manager: %SystemRoot%\system32\CompMgmtLauncher.exe
and then click Roles > Web Server (IIS) > Internet Information Services 7
MS SQL Server 2008 Management Studio is located:
C:\Program Files\Microsoft SQL Server\100\Tools\Binn\VSShell\Common7\IDE\Ssms.exe
